MARRIAGE IN EQUALITY

how i proposed

i once thought god gave new york roaches so new jersey could laugh...now its us here who can look over there ...and well, not really laugh at new jersey, just at its governor!
help me!
what part of the political party game am i not getting?

after too long, "marriage equality" finally passed in new york state!
there are just so many people who do not understand what that means to gay couples.
"civil unions" never cut it  for me - equality is equality! besides the psychological implications that homosexuals are "less than" (what part of second class citizens dont you get?) there are the rights that go along with being married - the big one at hand for me is : if i would have chosen to marry a woman (that i could have even just met 24 hours ago) from another country, she would be entitled to all the rights of a married couple including a green card, which for immigration purposes (which is a federal, and not a state issue) would allow her to live in my country with me.

because i have chosen to marry the one i love, who is an alien, this being is not being granted a green card because he happens to be of the same gender that i am. we chose to get married in CANada where it was legal and recognized by a country outright ( before there was "marriage equality" in ny) and no matter he has lived and worked here for 34 years ( the last 24 with me) when he retires he has 30 days legally to remain here. talk about family values, my dear right wing brothers and sisters, you are ripping mine apart! 
it really doesnt seem to matter to the law makers how many divorces and affairs one has, as long as one (or both) is  heterosexual! (whose foot was that tapping in the men's room, at the airport a few years ago?) no matter that there is "a separation of church and state", these law makers go to just one of the holy books that exist on the planet (daring not to mention all the others) and use this as their "reason" to define marriage as being "between one man and one woman"...which really lacks reasoning if one looks at all the wives just king david himself had - completely over looking his first love for another man!

so here, the now governor of nj whose legislative body has just passed "marriage equality" says, "no!" to this long coming rite of passage, and vetos it...because  he'd rather have the people of the state vote on this issue for themselves. so what the f--- are representatives for?
gay marriage  is not what will take this country down...its the hypocritical politicians who're out playing games to become re-elected...and in this governor's case for  a possible place in washington!
when the vote comes up before the people, i believe they ought to be given the opportunity as well to veto mr christie eating out of the pork barrel!

all loves deserve the rite to be married, by god!

love you got